Description
I work with men to make changes in their relationship to compulsive sexual behaviours.
About Egbert Jager:
I started where you are. My life was upside down. My sexual behaviours were interfering with my work, relationships and taking pretty much all joy from my life. What felt fun at first became my prison.
My addiction began early, built slowly, and eventually consumed most of my days. I spent more and more time on the computer. I was losing my ability to be effective in my career. I gave up hobbies and stopped attending family events. I even used the extra time during the holidays to pursue my addiction.
Eventually, I spent more time connecting with people outside my family to feed my addiction. The progression wasn’t obvious, at least to me. Instead, it felt gradual and ‘normal.’
I was neglecting myself. I wasn’t going to the doctor or dentist, and I wasn’t exercising or even getting outdoors. As a result, I put on an unhealthy amount of weight, and my physical health declined.
My emotional self was lost early on. I was only able to connect through outrage and fear. I had lost connection to and concern about everything that wasn’t my addiction.
How I can Help:
My vision is that all hearts be free from suffering. I know that recovery is possible. During my own recovery journey, I developed a desire to help others find their way.
How do I do that? I start with my ‘authentic self.’ I’m here to listen, meet you where you’re at and form a healthy connection. My job isn’t to judge. After all, I’ve been where you are now! My job is to offer my lived experience, insight as a neutral observer, and training and knowledge to help you move forward.
We will focus on where you want to be, what’s holding you back, and how to remove those obstacles so you can get there. From my perspective, I can help you see your situation more clearly. We will identify your needs together, and I’ll help you take clear, actionable steps. These steps can lead you to success in your journey of recovery.
Are you ready to connect so you can get back on track? Wherever you are, I can help. Set up a free call to tell me about your goals. We’ll make a plan to go forward.
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